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Breakdown Of Bridesmaid Responsibilities
Emotional Support
Your bridesmaids are the perfect people to turn to when you are stressed or
frazzled from the details of planning. Emotional support may also mean clearing
some space for you - brides often ask their bridesmaids to host a relative or
friend from out of town. Most importantly, as people who care about you, your
bridesmaids want to help. Some say they feel left out when they aren't consulted
for support or guidance!
The Bridal Shower
The bridal shower gained popularity in America early in the 20th century.
Customarily a surprise party for society women, the bride was "showered" with
presents to help her establish her new home. While most showers today don't have
the same pomp and circumstance, the purpose remains the same: gifts! The
bridesmaids may consult you on the theme of the party and they will look to you
for the guest list, so be prepared! A little tip: The guest list should also be
marked after the shower with "gift received" next to the names so that you'll
know to whom and for what to send thank you notes. NOTE: If you're worried about
your planners' competence, there are a host of instructional resources available
at major bookstores and online for theme inspirations and how-to advice on
getting organized and running a posh soiree.
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